Choosing a perfect life partner or soul mate for marriage is one of the most sensitive decisions you will make in life. Marriage is a divine institution where you learned how to make your life happy with your partner and know the happiness of life. Most of the couples think that married life means sex life, but it doesn’t like that. Sex in married life is necessary, but there are many things that are beyond the sex and most necessary for successful and healthy married life/Happy Matrimony. Life is so long so you and your partner experience many things which can help you to grow your married life.
Things that are more important in married life:
1. Be Honest
Honesty in a relationship is utmost. Mostly speaking truth makes you uncomfortable or maybe leads your partner to anger. At that moment they must anger but appreciate your honesty in the long run.
Trust takes time to grow in the relationship especially in a arrange marriage because both individuals don’t each other and they meet a few times before marriage.
3. Be flexible
If you think your providing ideas are always best, then you are wrong. In a relationship or married life, the one-sided opinion may feel your partner uncomfortable. Always get opinions or ideas from your partner. Opinion and ideas is an important ingredient for successful communication.
4. Time Management
Time management in married life is a must. If you both are working, then it is possible you and your partner time will be matched. Otherwise, you must give time to your partner and at that time you can watch TV, movies and share/discuss daily life issues or office problems.
5. No gadgets at bed
Leave your all electronic gadgets such as mobile phones, laptops while your partner is with you. Technology is a good way to communicate or share the feeling with your partner at that when your partner is not with you. If your partner is with you, then try don’t use gadgets. The feeling can share only with the communication and may even single touch express your partner feeling.
6. Try to clean your room
Neat and clean rooms may not interrupt you and your partner feeling and give an opportunity to romance; otherwise, the mash room diverts your mind.
7. Have sex and schedule it
It is part of married life. There are five pointers you and your partner believe need to be covered during intercourse, and they are respect, consideration, intimacy, communication, and fun. You can also schedule sex; this will make excitement you and your partner.
Compromise in married life is a must and it is an inherent part of the relationship. You and your partner’s habits/expectations are different, so they must have to compromise with their expectations and make adjustments.
9. Value each other’s interests
You and your partner have different interests, and then both individuals have to respect the interest. It is the best thing to take a part of their interest and it is good for you to adopt a new something.
10. Accept that no one is perfect
It is a rare chance you will get that person who meets your expectations. So you have to make some adjustments to married life.
11. Research and discussion
In case if you face any problem in married life, then research on the internet. There you got some ideas to solve the problem. Otherwise, you can share your problem with your parents or a trusty person.
12. Help each other
If both are work professionally, then it must share household responsibilities.
You can share your opinion and feelings with your partner openly. In my opinion, they must respect your opinion. You can also take part in everyday communications. This will help you to define the presence of you.
14. Utilize your time
It does not matter how much time you and your partner spend together. Just utilize the time and don’t argue the unwanted points. This is the time when you and your partner share your feeling and make future plans.
15. Don’t compare your partner with others
Make sure that you are happy with your partner and never compare it with another one. Be happy in what you have and only measure your partner by their standard. If you think something id different and wrong, then discuss them, they will definitely note your point and take action as soon as possible.
16. Give Space
In case, you feel your partner does not respond properly or act not like regularly, then discuss them otherwise give some space.
Dating after marriage may be awkward, but is good to reheat the relation.
18. Don’t fight
Fight in a relationship is common. Due to circumstances, these situations arise; try to wind up the matter as soon as possible.